Author Archives: Coley

With a Woman

I’ve been attracted to women my whole life, but I was married for two years before I worked up the bravery to admit it to my husband. He was initially terrified. And then as it sunk in that this was … Continue reading

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The Most Perfect Compliment

This will sound weird, but here goes. Occasionally I visit Chat Roulette. It’s odd, but I do it mostly for its oddity. Being bored, for me, is only one or two notches away from being slightly turned on for some … Continue reading

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Bursting Porn’s Bubble

Not so long ago, a close male friend of mine was commenting on how ridiculous the newest Clint Eastwood¬†movies are. Any one with any knowledge of being 80 knows it is pretty unlikely old Clint would actually be able to … Continue reading

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The Story of a Vagina

A few years ago, I went for the first time to watch The Vagina Monologues. It was the first time that it had ever occurred to me to consider my vagina and my relationship with it. And when I did … Continue reading

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Questioning the Secrecy

This blog doesn’t use my name. I don’t mention my posts on my Facebook. I refer to my husband by a nondescript letter, much like in a Victor Hugo book. ¬†I find this awkward and an odd way to relate … Continue reading

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30 Reasons Women Don’t Want to Have Sex

I kind of loved this. There you go men….! We’re not evil, mean, bitches, etc. http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/132222/35_brutally_honest_reasons_women?utm_medium=sm&utm_source=facebook&utm_content=thestir_fanpage

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Sex Toys… Ah Blessed Sex Toys

When M and I first hopped into bed together, I have to admit, I expected fireworks. After all, our love was absolutely explosive. But it was lack luster at first. Orgasms did not reside around every corner as I may … Continue reading

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